1- Why were they brought into my life -the chariot

2- How did the relationship begin -the fool

3- How is it now -page of swords

4- What am I to learn from them - 10 of cups

5- Is this relationship destined 2 of wands - 9 of wands

6- Is it meant to be more than friendship -8 of swords

7- Will it be - king of pentacles

8- Are we on the right path - queen of swords

9- Where are we headed - knight of cups

10- Where will we end up/outcome - the star rx

11- What is forseeable page of swords - the lovers rx

12- What is not - 6 of pentacles

13- How will our future look together - 2 of wands

14- How will it look apart 5 of cups

15- Obstacles 3 of pentacles rx

"What is the best way for me to recover/restore this romance?" by Thirteen from Tarot Forum

(1) = What is the best action I can take to recover the romance?
3 of cups - be his friend, do things together as a group.

(2) = What is the best friend or asset I have that will help me recover the romance?
ace of cups - i love him.

(3) = What action should I not take?the one which will ruin any hope of recovering the romance?
9 of swords - don't get all worried and get all psych on him.

(4) = What is my worst asset or enemy in my attempt to recover the romance? The thing I should avoid using at all costs?
knight of wands rx - dont be hasty, I will be denied what I want, dont be hasty or impulsive. need that mental clarity.

(5) = What will he use to block me from my goal?
page of pentacles - not ready for a relationship.

(6) = What must I keep in mind if I'm going to succeed, as best I can, at doing this?
ace of swords - I am confused by the whole situation and what I want. Its one big mess.

The Relationship Tarot Reading Layout

1. The current relationship. - 5 of swords - we just had a big falling out and it caused a lot of tension between us. We both messed up, and I took it overboard. We talked about it and are in the forgiving stages.
2. What are the strengths in the relationship. 9 of wands - even though we did have a fight, we agreed to remain friends.
3. What are the challenges or blockages in the relationship. 2 of swords - we are both very protective of ourselves. I have been open with my feelings, but I feel like he is blocking his emotions and can't make up his mind.
4. What you are bringing into the relationship. 7 of wands - I still have feelings for him and don't want to give this up. I see a lot of potential.
5. How you see the relationship currently. strength - this relationship is taking a lot out of me. I am very hurt and its a struggle to keep moving on.
6. What you want from the relationship in the future. 3 of cups - I miss his friendship the most, I just wish we could enjoy each others company like old times.
7. What may be holding you back from allowing the relationship to develop. Queen of swords - I can be distant and "bitchy"... despite wanting to reconnect with him my instinct is to retreat and be a "widow".
8. What you need to do to grow the relationship. Ace of wands - Focus on a fresh start to the relationship and try to overcome these challenges.
9. What the other person is bringing into the relationship with you. four of cups
10. How your partner sees the relationship currently. page of pentacles
11. What your partner wants from the relationship in the future.queen of cups
12. What may be holding your partner back from allowing the relationship to develop. 7 of pentacles
13. What your partner needs to do to grow the relationship. the sun
14. Where is the relationship heading. king of swords
15. What you need to do to make the most of this relationship. the tower

1. How the relationship used to be - the sun
2. What lead to the end of the relationship - 2 of swords
3. What was the significance of the relationship - the star
4. Where the relationship currently stands - 2 of pentacles
5. What you want from the relationship - 4 of wands
6. What your ex wants from the relationship - 6 of cups
7. What obstacles need to be overcome to renew the relationship - 3 of swords
8. Is this relationship ‘meant to be’- 8 of pentacles
9. Where the relationship is headed in the near future - 9 of swords
10. What is your best course of action - the hanged man

1. Your motivation – The first card shows you the real underlying reason for your desire to reconnect. It indicates if you want them back to soothe a bruised ego or if there is true love there. It tells you if you feel that you didn’t learn all you needed to learn or if you are just struggling with letting go. 7 of cups
2. & 3. What you had – These two cards represent the relationship dynamic you had in the past and sheds further light on the first card.the hanged man, 9 of wands
4. The handle – This card shows you what action you would need to take to reconnect. A card such as The Hanged Man shows that it won’t matter what you do, you’ll just have to surrender and wait for the future to unfold. Look for the Fire (Wands+Majors) and Air (Swords+Majors) cards to indicate that taking action will pay off. 4 of wands
5. The lock – This is the main challenge/obstacle that lies between you and your AWOL lover. the hermit
6. An outside influence currently affecting the situation – No need to elaborate. 5 of cups
7. 8. & 9. What lies on the other side of the door – If you know that it is best not to push through, you’ll at least have some idea of what is happening there and why things are best left alone. He could have moved on emotionally or he could be struggling with stuff that you can’t help him with.
temperance, queen of wands, 6 of pentacles
10. The key – If you received a green light for using that door handle, then this is the key that unlocks the lock and gives you the understanding you need to open the door.
10 of wands
Love & Blessings,
Lisa