Monday, August 27, 2012

  1. The current relationship. ace of swords
  2. What are the strengths in the relationship. the devil reversed
  3. What are the challenges or blockages in the relationship. 9 of pentacles
  4. What you are bringing into the relationship. 3 of swords
  5. How you see the relationship currently. ace of cups
  6. What you want from the relationship in the future. queen of wands
  7. What may be holding you back from allowing the relationship to develop. 6 of pentacles
  8. What you need to do to grow the relationship. the empress
  9. What the other person is bringing into the relationship with you. 8 of wands
  10. How your partner sees the relationship currently. strength
  11. What your partner wants from the relationship in the future. the sun
  12. What may be holding your partner back from allowing the relationship to develop. king of wands
  13. What your partner needs to do to grow the relationship. knight of swords rx
  14. Where is the relationship heading. temperance
  15. What you need to do to make the most of this relationship. 9 of swords

Thursday, August 23, 2012


  1. The current relationship. page of wands
  2. What are the strengths in the relationship. 4 of wands
  3. What are the challenges or blockages in the relationship. 8 of cups
  4. What you are bringing into the relationship. 3 of cups rx
  5. How you see the relationship currently. justice rx
  6. What you want from the relationship in the future. death rx
  7. What may be holding you back from allowing the relationship to develop. 2 of swords
  8. What you need to do to grow the relationship. 10 of cups
  9. What the other person is bringing into the relationship with you. 2 of pent rx
  10. How your partner sees the relationship currently. page of pentacles rx
  11. What your partner wants from the relationship in the future. 6 of pentacles
  12. What may be holding your partner back from allowing the relationship to develop. 9 of pentacles
  13. What your partner needs to do to grow the relationship. 5 of swords
  14. Where is the relationship heading. magician
  15. What you need to do to make the most of this relationship. king of cups

Wednesday, August 22, 2012

Recover/restore tarot reading

"What is the best way for me to recover/restore this romance?" by Thirteen from Tarot Forum

(1) = What is the best action I can take to recover the romance?
the emperor. Take the lead over the relationship, he always says that he is so shy and won't make the first move. Be calm, be cool. Have a vision, carry it out. Remember that I am in control of myself.

(2) = What is the best friend or asset I have that will help me recover the romance?
the magician - I can create success in a lot of things, perhaps I can create some magic, be more optimistic, go for my dreams. Communicate, use all the tools I can to restore my relationship.

(3) = What action should I not take?the one which will ruin any hope of recovering the romance?
the hermit - which is what I am doing now! Avoiding him :( Don't spend too much time over thinking things.

(4) = What is my worst asset or enemy in my attempt to recover the romance? The thing I should avoid using at all costs?
page of swords - maybe not to rush my thoughts, don't get carried away with them. I've listened to gossip about him in the past (I've made some incorrect assumptions). Don't be childish and tell the truth to him. Don't be defensive of offensive, don't clutch onto the sword forever.

(5) = What will he use to block me from my goal?
4 of swords - he may not want a relationship, he might want to think things over before he commits to anything. He can be very passive. (and also scared to get hurt).

(6) = What must I keep in mind if I'm going to succeed, as best I can, at doing this?
3 of pentacles - Communicate with him what we want to do from here, overcome the problems and plan more for the future.

Tuesday, August 7, 2012

It's been a really rough week!! Looking like its time to really consider moving, although I don't feel ready. I wanted to wait a bit. But I did a spread to gain insight.

Made this up:
1. What should I be looking for in a place:

Strength - A solid secure place, I feel physically/mentally at ease, where I can go to charge my battery. Perhaps needing some work/gentle touch and some patience. Don't be too wild or hasty in making a decision.

2. How will I know its right:

Justice - It will have balanced options (price, size, ect). The landlord is a very clear business professional. After weighting the pro's and con's I feel at harmony with the choice.

3. Things to consider:

Nine of Pentacles - I need independence, my space and privacy. I've considered a roommate, but I am probably better alone. No apartments with lots of people. Find a place that has a yard (which agrees with the strength card background). I love being outdoors!

4. Is it a good time? Or should I wait?

The Emperor - Could signify a person who I can get advice from. Not really sure who that is though! Perhaps its telling me not to be too stubborn or hot headed. I am moving away from a controlling, dominant, overbearing personality - my mothers new husband. I live with them and he see's himself as a ruler of the roost and has made it clear that I am not welcome anymore.

5. Will I move soon?

Two of Wands - Choices: Am I the 9P? Can I deal with the Emperor much longer? As far as time frame, since its a 2 moving is more of a planning stage about my future to see what the world has to offer. Do I wait for the boat (its getting engine/canvas work done) or do I find a real residence?

6. Outcome of moving:

Death - A new chapter/transformation. Put the past behind me, let go of the unhealthy dynamics of the house. It maybe hard but things will get better.

Clarify: Moving to the boat

1. Pro's - Page of cups - Be like a teenager, avoid responsibility (no gas bills). Emotionally it will feel good being on the water and getting daily messages from nature. I will be able to slow down and regroup, using creative problem solving to develop a plan.

2. Con's
Eight of cups - Its a short term fix for an inevitable problem. I need to go find a place I can call home. Can't be a wanderer forever. I will be alone and not as distracted by the moving process and be forced to deal with my emotional disappointments from the home situation. Probably won't be the good time I think I will have.

3. Outcome of moving to the boat for a bit: King of pentacles: Get to spend time on my castle, complete with a garden (as pictured). I would have more pentacles (money) if I did this so it is more practical. I will have a better plan.

4. Outcome of moving to a property: The Devil - I am probably too crazy right now to make this choice. Maybe I will find myself attached in bad deal because I am in such a worst case scenario state of mind. A dishonest person might sense my desperation to get out and get me over my head. I could be tempted to overspend since I am in such a rush.

Perhaps I should be looking for the strength to calm down and make the right decision for my future to ensure financial success. Calming down and going to the boat makes the best sense financially, I just need remember its temporary and to save money.